Well, I know you don't know me all that well, and that I don't know everything about your situation. . . But I have to say that whoever it is is obviously way off base.
From what I can see you are trying very hard to do the right things, and care greatly for that goal. You seem willing to sacrifice a huge amount to make things right that have drifted off course .. . . And I, for one, admire you for tackling those treacherous waters, and working so hard to make it all come out for everyone's best.
So. . . Good luck, and here's to hoping you can escape this nasty poison being sprayed in your general direction.
Thanks. I appreciate the comments.